Self Esteem Check

About 5 years ago, I was at a networking event. People that know me know I love to network.

This event was a traditional networking evening so I casually went up to this woman and we both asked each other what the other did.

When she asked me that day what I did for a living, I responded “I’m a Professional Energy...Healer?”

She responded back to me...do you realize all of your sentences end sounding like questions? Are you questioning yourself?

Though she said it lightheartedly, it was one of the most powerful pieces of feedback I had ever received.

I realized every sentence I said did in fact sound like a question and I wasn’t presenting who I was or what I did with any bit of confidence. Instead, I was moving along looking for validation from strangers.

Now 5 years later after integrating this feedback and working to heal myself, I’m much more direct when speaking to others. Every sentence isn’t a question but rather much more of a direct statement.

Plain and simple: I’m a Professional Energy Healer.

And now to you who’s reading this...

If you want to check your self esteem, do your conversations sound like all of your sentences end as questions? Or do your sentences end with periods?

The next time you’re in conversation with someone I challenge you to try listening to yourself to see if you’re ending your sentences with question marks or periods.

It’s a fascinating tool to see where you’re at in terms of your self confidence.

Though it can be normal to take time to build confidence in all areas of your life, it’s definitely not ideal if everything you say sounds like a question.

You deserve to present yourself to the world (Queen or King).

Since self esteem has been a huge part of my journey, I’d be honored to share more with you. (Just reach out!)

Sending lots of love to each and everyone of you. Let me know what you discover this week in conversation!