When you're being controlling, you're basically saying 'I need this outcome in order to be okay. Also, I need you to behave a certain way in order to be okay.'

Even more than that, what it really boils down to is trust. It's not trusting that your really really smart higher self will lead you to the outcome you need. It's also about not trusting the process.

When we hang on, when we grip the steering wheel, it's exhausting, it's draining, and it's no fun for anyone, most of all for you.

So if you feel like a control freak, here's what I want you to remember after taking a really deep breath.

What's meant for you will always find you. There are certain things you wanted to learn here in this physical body and you can trust that they are yours to learn. Nobody can take that from you.

On the same hand, what's not meant for you, you don't get to keep. Perhaps something/someone came into your life for a short period of time but ultimately it's no longer yours and that's okay. Many times the best gifts can come in times of uncertainty.

If your ego is getting frustrated because it can't see an immediate outcome, take a deep breath and remember what's yours won't pass by you.

As always if you're struggling to get out of your own way, I'm here for you.

Lots of love.