I'm here today to tell you it's okay if you're not ready to make a big step in your life. Maybe you know you need to leave a relationship, a job, or start a business etc. Whatever it is, wherever you are, it is okay.

A lot of personal development coaches, public speakers, Nike, etc. will tell you "Just go for it!" or "Just do it!" and while there is a time and place for that, it's not the message for today.

The message for today is to reframe your circumstances. The way you're going to take your power back and stop beating yourself up for where you're at comes with two simple words.

Those two simple words? I CHOOSE.

You cannot be a victim of your situation if you're using the words "I choose." You cannot think something is happening to you if you use the words "I choose."

For example, say you're in a relationship you know you need to leave but you aren't quite ready yet. If you say "I choose this relationship right now and when I'm ready I will leave it" it is going to be so much more refreshing than beating yourself up all the time about what you haven't done yet.

Trust that when you're ready to move on you definitely will. Until that time, you get to remain the empowered badass that you are rather than a victim of your life.

Can I also mention it's so much easier to move forward from a place of empowerment than it is from a place of defeat?

As always, if you want more than just a reframe, I'd be happy to help you with really amazing magick to take your power back in your life.